I lost my father when I was a little over 30, and I can totally understand how you feel. It's hard to lose a parent when you are young, especially when you are close to them because you knew they will never be able to see your achievements, your happiness, console your griefs, and pick you up when you failed. However, I am happy that you have found someone whom you can grow old with and be able to support each others in every aspect of your life.
We all grief differently, and just because you didn't sob and in tear when your mother passed away, doesn't mean you don't love her and don't miss her. Sometimes, we have difficulty processing our feelings until later, and it's OK.
At the end of the day, however way you manage your feelings is OK.
Thank you for sharing you story, Elle. Grief in all its complexities follows us as those we love never leave our hearts. Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!
Hi Elle,
I lost my father when I was a little over 30, and I can totally understand how you feel. It's hard to lose a parent when you are young, especially when you are close to them because you knew they will never be able to see your achievements, your happiness, console your griefs, and pick you up when you failed. However, I am happy that you have found someone whom you can grow old with and be able to support each others in every aspect of your life.
We all grief differently, and just because you didn't sob and in tear when your mother passed away, doesn't mean you don't love her and don't miss her. Sometimes, we have difficulty processing our feelings until later, and it's OK.
At the end of the day, however way you manage your feelings is OK.
Thank you for sharing you story, Elle. Grief in all its complexities follows us as those we love never leave our hearts. Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!
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